Wednesday, 4 November 2009

Should a Slave Support You Financially?

A letter from Susan:

Ingrid,

I did read the book and I found it interesting. It was actually given to me by a man that I met recently. We originally met on the internet after he posted that he was looking for a cuckold relationship, but when we met in person he began discussing slavery.

I am a dominant woman, I know I am comfortable with a cuckold relationship, but I wonder about full-on slavery. First of all this man is a successful attorney and I wonder how that fits in with the full time duties of a slave. If I were to move in with him, as I intend to do, I don't see the usefulness of keeping him at home when he could be out earning money and providing me with a more substantial lifestyle?

Then I'm a writer and somewhat strapped for money and I wonder about exercising authority over a slave that is providing for me financially.
Thank you for your response.

Susan


Ingrid: Susan, thank you for your email and comments.

What is of utmost importance is your pleasure and goals. Whether your partner is at home or not is secondary.

From the little you have told me, I think you are ideally suited to taking in this slave and have him look after your needs financially during the day, and then serving you domestically during the evening and at weekends. He will have to make considerable sacrifices to adjust his schedule and life around your needs - but that is the cost of true servitude. His servitude will allow you to concentrate your efforts on your writing without worrying about money.

Let me know how it goes.

Ingrid.

Friday, 16 October 2009

Vanilla Articles

What modern women want:a beta male - The Times

Want a man to propose? Be a bitch - MSNBC.com

Dating Advice - 6 Ways to Train Your Boyfriend - Yahoo Personals

DreamLover Laboratories Continues To Make Progress

Thursday, 8 October 2009

Femocracy

An essay sent to me by "Bogie":

VISIONS AND THOUGHTS…

The Female must be recognized as the biologically superior gender. For this there must be no doubt. Women must be groomed to prepare her to take her natural leadership position. In my perceived world of the future Women would lead, control and dominate every male in every aspect of living.

The sad and evil time of "macho" men, must come to an end. It is a dirty stain of our past, where males have abused and subordinated Women. Throughout history Women have been marginalized and this era is fortunately now finished.

Today, we are seeing more and more strong and confident Women marching onto the stage to assume positions of leadership. This time is long overdue, but fortunately it is a time which is now upon us. It is a time when males must learn to be submissive, respectful, obedient, honest to Females and welcome them into positions of leadership.

Males under this new order will be enlightened to become less macho, but more masculine with attributes of intelligence and creativity valued. This more intelligent and intuitive male will know that by being led by a confident Woman he will become more integrated with her. Additionally, such things as his spiritual development will become valued.

A strong, strict and dominant Female, does not in any way connote that she is anything but Feminine and loving. A confident Woman is capable of balance to show her care for humanity in a more beautiful way than mankind has ever seen before. This is our future and why I am so excited!

The era of male leadership has been so destructive. Every day there is death and destruction and such economic waste under the male leadership. We must bring this to an end. Men are resposnsible for a centuries of killings, war, and tragedy. This must be stopped for mankind to survive on this earth. I encourage Women taking control and changing the direction of our future before it is too late. The future of our society is best left to the intellect of Women.

Women must sieze and take control. The future belongs to HER!

Friedrich Nietzche was so right when he predicted that a new era is upon us.....however, he couldnt imagine that his "Uberman" was not quite right.
Instead we must accept "Womb-man!"

Now it is time for a Matriarchy to be established and to recognize a MotherGod!

History is finished and we are now at the begining of a new era - Herstory.

Is democracy at an end? I believe we must forget about democracy. We don't need a democracy in which males can vote on issues of mass destruction, such as how many new weapons will be created, which country shoud we bomb, how many more people will be killed in pursuit of a policy called democracy?

The time is now for change. It is definitley time for new and enlightened leadership. Let us instead talk about FEMOCRACY!

In a Femocratic society males could have rights to vote in elections. I would propose that there would only be Female candidates that males could vote for. Males would only be elevated to positions of trust and leadership by a Female.

We need males to be educated and to become brilliant and succesful workers, scientists,artists…or whatever, but their talent, energy and intelligence should always be focused on advancing the Feminine ideals and should be monitored to be under the control of Women in leadership. Goverment and parliment, economic and political power, leadership, executive functions msut be shifted to the hands of strong and dominant Females.

Femocracy must be constructive, not destructive. I believe that only under the control of Women, under their loving authority can male energy can be focused in a beneficial and constructive way. But, these are just words and the big question is, "How do we go about building this Matriarchal dream and bringing about Femocracy? Like so many times, the keys are in our Mother s hands! At the earliest points both Girls and boys would be taught to respect Women and to give way and yield to a Woman's natural intellect.

As our society evolves into more belief oriented sects, it may be feasible for there to be communities where Women reign Supreme. In these communities Women would have the Dominant role and children would be taught at a very early age to accept Women as the Supreme beings. In family and in school, boy children would be taught to be obedient and submissive to all Girls and Wpmen, regardless of age. Girl children would have to be taught from an early age to take control, and how to delegate to the boy children. Boy children would have to taught respectful obedience and that it is natural to yeield to Women because of their Divinity.

A Woman's words of praise are the dearest thing for many boys to hear. To impact the boy children and they would need to be loved with a balance towards administering firm discipline and strict disciplinary punishment. This would be a step towards changing society and developing boys with lower levels of destructive aggression. This would be a project that would take generations to see the benefits. Boy children are best raised with strict lessons and punishment meted out. But the boy must always feel Female love as they are being instructed in their formative years. This I beleive is very, very important.

Matriarchy and Femocracy can not ever be build on violence only on the principles of Love, and based on natural Female domination.

In an ideal world males would be stripped of ownership of property but provided food and medical care. Sexuality must be encouraged and pleasuring Women is to be at the center of a male's interests.

The institution of marriage would also need to undergo changes.Wife have to be loving Mistress and caring owner of her husband with great rights over husband but also with responsibility.

Dear friends, this new age is coming, with strong superior Female taking charge of Earth s destiny. Let us greet her with the joy! Submissive men, kneel down and kiss her hand and extend your heart with respect and love. We all have to celebrate the dominant Female of new age and her Feminine Power.But when we celebrate her,we also celebrate her submissive,obedient,humbly and loyal male partner.This pair walking together in perfect harmony!

Thursday, 1 October 2009

Ingrid Bellemare on Facebook

I have started a Facebook group. Follow the link on my blog to join.

Ingrid

Sunday, 27 September 2009

Mistress Lori's World of Chastity

Feedback for my book:

I just bought your book , very excited to read it. I thumbed thru it first and saw the chastity section and I wanted to share the device I have my slave locked in. Its a Lori's locking jewelry and he can't get out of it. Mistress Lori makes the most secure chastity devices on the market. I had him in the cb3000, cb2000, the sentinel and all those he could get out of with a paperclip. but with Lori's he has to have a key!!. very Delicious

thank you for the book

Mistress Debbie

Saturday, 22 August 2009

Owning and Training a Male Slave - The Paperback Book

"Owning and Training a Male Slave" by Ingrid Bellemare is now available in paperback format.

When ordering from Lulu, the book arrives in a plain packet - see below:

Contact me with any questions. Books can be purchased here.